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I’m guilty of sabotaging myself in the past. So, when I decided to look up the definition of sabotage in the dictionary to see all that it entails, I was shocked at what I was doing to myself.
Continue reading “4 Things That Stop Self-Sabotage”
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I hesitated to share the personal experience that I am about to share. But, these are the types of raw experiences that people can learn from. These are the types of stories that could possibly save a life by casting a ray of hope upon a depressed soul.
Continue reading “How Writing Saved My Life”
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Today I had an interesting thought. What if I were in the dictionary? I’m not necessarily talking about my name. But, I’m talking about the essence of me and who I am. If I were to be incorporated into the dictionary, what would be found after the title entry?
Would I be described by using events of the past, current events or things to come in the future?
Who am I? What am I? How do I find out?
Continue reading “The Definition of You”
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Ever since I decided to embark upon my journey of self-employment, I have been so nervous and full of fear. It’s been unfamiliar territory that I’m slowly having to conquer. No regular paycheck to fall back on. The hardest part of all of this has been learning to trust and believe in myself.
Along with being self-employed, I’m also writing a book. And, I have felt like a bit of a hypocrite because it’s a book for entrepreneurs about improving self-confidence. Writing this book is working more on me than I am working on it. As I write the book, it’s changing my life. Diving into the research and the writing fills my mind with healthy thoughts. The more I write, the more that good thoughts seem to stick with me. They’re becoming more natural than the negative tape that has been playing on a loop in my head for the past few years.
You can’t wait until you feel like you’re ready to do some things. If you wait, you’ll never feel ready enough, or good enough, or expert enough….or whatever you feel you need enough of. You often have to leap out and “just do it” until it feels natural.
The farther I go along my journey the more I believe in myself. I could have never began to believe if I had never taken that beginning step. Each little ounce of belief gained along the way is enough to keep me going another step.
(Image by Raphael Love)
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I’m taking baby steps right now. I just got a small advanced payment from a client. It could all easily disappear under the pressure I feel to purchase things that I might really need. Like, medicine just in case one of my children gets a fever. Or, more tissue for runny noses. Instead of skipping out on those things, the children and I will have to miss a school field trip instead. I will need to take this money and use it as a seed. I need to plant it so that it can grow into something more. That’s how the beginning of so many things are. Everything is urgent and needs immediate attention. But, you have to prioritize and weigh out the cost of things. Sure, we’ll miss out on this field trip. But I hope to make this small amount of money multiply into many more field trips that we will be able to take in the future. Thankfully there are free events I can often find in my local community. We’ll be going to a fall festival at our local library instead.
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I’m writing this because I hope that it will help other people in a tight bind, to get ideas that will help improve their situation.
– Where it All Started…
I started with $0 in my bank account and $0 in my pocket, and I had three children under the age of 4 to feed. I was a stay-at-home-mom who suddenly became a single-stay-at-home-mom. Continue reading “What I Started With & Where I’m At Now”
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I recently celebrated a major milestone in my life. For the first time, all of my little children are in school. I have been hustling for a long time to be a single-work-at-home-mom so that I could be with them through their young years. I have had an enormous amount of help from my family to do this. I’ve made it through the infancy and toddler years. I saw every first step and heard every first word. I was even able to homeschool them a bit.
Now that they are all old enough to be in school, I have come back to dust off this old facebook page and blog that I began way back in 2012. I created this page on Thanksgiving Day of 2012 because I always want to remember to be thankful for all of the past challenges that I came through.